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I help people to reconnect with their inherent inner wisdom & strength by actively listening nonjudgmentally. By being able to laugh at our selves & our patterns we begin the process of healing.

About Me

Charmaine Patterson, clinical social worker, registered with the Alberta College of Social Workers and the Ontario College of Social Workers and Social Service Workers.

I was born and raised here in Calgary, a true Calgarian.  Having said that I have lived in Southern Alberta, abroad; Northern Wales and now settled back in Calgary.  I enjoy the outdoors, walking my dogs at the local dog park or along the riverside. Mother Nature is my sanctuary.  I also enjoy gardening both flowers and vegetables, kayaking, swimming and going out to live music events.

Philosophy

With over 27 yrs of experience, I am passionate to work with adults who struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, chronic pain, stress, grief, depression, low self-esteem, regulating intense emotions/mood instability, sense of emptiness, interpersonal struggles, avoidance, work/life balance, setting boundaries and personality issues.  I have marvelled at people’s abilities to be resilient while also struggling with a racing mind and/or experiencing intense emotions.  I enjoy listening to people’s stories and finding the most effective therapeutic approach to assist them with reconnecting to their inner capacity and wisdom.  While also helping them to find balance, reduce the effects of stress and improve their overall quality of life.

I help people to reconnect with their inherent inner wisdom & strength by actively listening non-judgmentally. By being able to laugh at our selves & our patterns we begin the process of healing.

This work is done in partnership by creating a nonjudgmental safe environment and a place of acceptance which allows you to look at your coping patterns and establish a path to healing. Through understanding, compassion and curiosity we can start to explore who you are & move to who you want to be.

With many years of experience in helping people I have learned to focus my efforts in helping people develop the best version of themselves. I create a cozy safe place for people to explore who they are & assist them to feel more in control of themselves & their lives.

I see people as unique diamonds (whole person model) and it being my job to support people to build more awareness into their inner workings. Awareness is the key ingredient to change, if there is no self-awareness no change can occur.  It is about cultivating curiosity to have a better understanding of how your behaviors impact your thoughts, emotions and body sensations or vice versa.

MINDFULNESS helps you to turn inwards to observe yourself and gain awareness, it is an effective tool to assist people with connecting with their inner capacity and wisdom.  It has personally helped me to have more gratitude, and it has empowered me to be accepting of my ‘monkey mind’ which subsequently appears to be less busy.  I am more present and awake to the moments in my life.  As Kevin Griffin points out “The first principle of finding happiness is to notice when it’s here.”

 

Availability

Monday – day/evening, Friday – day/evening and Saturday - day.

Evening appointments available upon request.

 

Education

Fall 2023 – Mar. 2024: Comprehensive Training in Group Leadership (120 hours of training) comprising 72 hours of direct instruction and 48 hours of related readings and reflective learning journals with Toronto Institute of Group Studies

Fall 2018 – Fall 2020: ACSW Clinical Social Work Designation – 1600 hours of clinical supervision

Fall 2014 – Feb. 2016: Completed the teacher training for the Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction Series through MBSR Ottawa which started with a nine-day intensive practicum.

Aug. 2011 – Summer 2013: Master of Social Work Clinical Graduate Degree, University of Calgary

Dec. 2001 – Summer 2004: Group Psychotherapy Certificate Program through the Group Therapy Training Program, Calgary

Fall 1996 – April 1998: Bachelor of Social Work Degree, University of Calgary (Lethbridge Division)

Completed several three to seven day silent retreats, building my own mindfulness practice. I believe one needs to practice what they preach!

Five star google review from Anonymous

Charmaine is one of those very few people in life that leaves a profound impression. I worked with her when I attended a day hospital program years ago. I was in a very dark place in my life and had little to no hope. Day hospital ended & I continued to struggle. She was the one person/therapist that I connected with and felt heard. I have tried many and always felt like I was just going through the motions. Years lapsed but I held onto to the hope that I would connect with Charmaine again. I have been seeing her consistently for a while now. I was correct in my strong feeling of this was the person I needed to help me in my muddy mental health path. She is soft, gently guiding and truly invested in her craft. She has a brilliant way and weaves all of her experience and education in this magical way to walk with you on this journey and feel supported and cared for in a way that I have never felt before. I feel truly blessed and grateful for our sessions and often hopeful for what I’ll experience next with when working with Charmaine

- Anonymous
Five star google review from Anonymous (previous participant of the MBSR Series)

She (Charmaine) was inspirational.

- Anonymous (previous participant of the MBSR Series)
Five star google review from Anonymous (previous participant of the MBSR Series)

Charmaine you were beautiful. Amazing. Life-changing. Your behaviour and character are shining example of mindfulness and loving kindness.

- Anonymous (previous participant of the MBSR Series)